02:00 - How to "frame game"

04:00 - Everything in the world that matters to us is a "frame"

05:15 - On a date, you're both "framing yourselves"

06:20 - We're choosing what to tell about ourselves, thus framing

07:45 - What does it mean to "make her like you?"

08:50 - We can understanding how to bond by understanding how conflict happens

12:00 - When you're trying to relate to someone, use language they understand and avoid things that make us feel disconnected

12:50 - People care that you understand THEM rather than vice-versa

14:00 - When you're actively listening to  people,  it makes them feel understood

15:50 - Even if you don't share their experiences, you can understand WHY

18:45 - If you want to understand them, they'll SEE that

19:25 - Don't try to FORCE your frame, either

20:15  - When you bring good vibes, people bring good vibes back

21:45 - You can have fun, flirty disagreements without mocking or condescending

22:50 - Study peoples' frames and you'll learn game

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